Nairobi News

Vera Sidika’s social life has gotten messier after she shared an online video showing her Nigerian ex-boyfriend assaulting her.

In the video clip, the two are in an apartment and her ex can be seen trying to grab her mobile phone as she records. In a different clip she is seen filming on the streets as the ex follows her from behind.

This comes just a day after the Kenyan socialite blamed her ex-boyfriend Yomi for the leakage of her nudes online.

In a lengthy post on Instagram, Vera recounted how Yomi once assaulted her while the two were in Dubai and subsequent fights that they got into.

“I could care less about what y’all think… but God knows I was patient. The first time he hit me I left Dubai and never set foot since January even after he kept asking me to go,” she wrote.

“I have never in my life been in an abusive relationship. This was my first & u can see my pink bag was packed plus the make up bag I wanted to leave. But he would never let me leave. It was always a struggle I finally understood how it felt. How these women feel going through this.”

I could care less about what y’all think…but God knows I was patient. The first time he hit me I left dubai and never set foot since January even after he kept asking me to go. I was scared. Reason I was calm on my messages was coz I was scared of what he’s capable of doing. I have never in my life been in an abusive relationship. This was my first ? & u can see my pink bag was packed plus the make up bag I wanted to leave. But he would never let me leave. It was always a struggle ?I finally understood how it felt. How these women feel going through this. I swear to my God ?? I was never in this relationship for money. He can testify so can his friends. The clothes he refused to give me back were my own clothes I bought he has NEVER bought me clothes to feel has right to keep them. I honestly thought I shud give love a 2nd chance & rub of idea of “I don’t wanna get married” that I once had. On a fight he cut my bag handle promised to replace it & never did. Instead said he’ll throw it in the trash or give his cleaner. This was the reason I never went back to dubai. I tried to leave for kenya ASAP but couldn’t. He would never let me go anywhere Alone & I just had to play nice so I can finally get home safe ?. My relationship was lied to from start to finish. He confessed he was in Jail just came out in March 2016 & changed. Doesn’t do fraud anymore etc I tried to believe him coz people do change. He said he had a spa & real estate in dubai. Whenever I was around never saw him do any funny thing so I believed him. Until i found out later it was a lie ? I discovered so much ?

A post shared by Vera Sidika (@queenveebosset) on Jun 21, 2017 at 9:42am PDT

Vera, who claims she was never in the relationship for the money, also recounted another incident in which she claims her ex damaged her handbag and failed to get a replacement for it.

“On a fight he cut my bag handle promised to replace it & never did. Instead said he’ll throw it in the trash or give his cleaner. This was the reason I never went back to Dubai. I tried to leave for Kenya ASAP but couldn’t. He would never let me go anywhere Alone & I just had to play nice so I can finally get home safe,” she wrote.

Vera also shared some screenshots of their conversations on WhatsApp at the height of the breakdown of her relationship with Yomi. According to the socialite, their relationship ended officially on May 11th.

She also blames her ex of spreading lies and being the source of her public ridicule by sharing information to blogs and claiming that he dumped her.