South African women could be allowed to have many husbands
Women in South Africa could soon be allowed to marry more than one man in what has been termed as a push to promote equality.
And the proposal is already under consideration by President Cyril Ramaphosa’s government, as per media reports in the country.
South African men are legally allowed to marry more than one wife even though women have been restricted to marrying one man.
But in a push to promote equality, the country’s Department of Home Affairs recently published a landmark policy document calling for polyandry to be legally recognized as a form of marriage.
The department’s Green Paper on Marriages states the current marriage act is discriminatory and does not promote equality.
The Green Paper also puts forward proposals to recognize Hindu, Jewish, Muslim, and Rastafarian marriages.
Elizabeth Retief, a member of PolyamorySA, has welcomed the proposal as a move in the right direction.
According to Retief, the department’s proposals are a step closer towards the acceptance of non-monogamy in South Africa.
However, she explains that the laws are still focused on polyandry and polygyny, which are both forms of polygamous marriages.
Polygamous marriages are primarily based on traditional value systems, cultural beliefs, heteronormativity, and static gender roles, she argues.
Retief says greater advocacy is still needed for polyamorous relationships, which are more fluid, progressive, open, and accepting of different sexualities and gender identities.
It’s high time this happened… and maybe eventually this will come around to polyamorous marriages because polygamy and polyamory are actually quite contradictory ways of life, while it actually might seem the same on the surface.