Questions smart men don’t ask their women
Healthy progressive relationships, they say, are based on open communication. This is true. It is also true that there are some questions, which, when asked, hurt more than they help a relationship.
Here is a look into some of those questions that a man should never ask his woman, ever;
1. Is that what you are wearing? – No woman ever takes kindly to a man making fun of her choice of dress. She doesn’t make fun of your clothes, if that is what she chose to wear, let her be.
2. How about a threesome? – This one is a no no. Threesomes are things that you think about when you are alone, just fantasies, not something that you ask a woman you are seeking a long-term relationship with.
3. Why are you so emotional? – Women are emotional beings. It is how they are wired. It isn’t a weakness. When you thus act annoyed or shocked at this trait of hers, a woman doesn’t take it kindly.
4. Do you want to pay for dinner? – I know, some men like forward thinking women who do not mind paying the bill every other time. Still, it is considered very unmanly to expect a woman to pick the tab. Let her pay if she wants to but never ask it of her.
5. Are on your period? – This is a question a man should never ask a woman especially if she is grumpy. Assuming that a woman is on her period just because she is grumpy sounds like you are belittling her.
6. Can I trust you? – The bulk of a relationship usually is based on trust. Asking a woman whether you can trust her usually comes off as a declaration that you do not trust them. No woman wants to be with a man who can’t trust her.
7. Can I read your text messages? – Again, this question indicates that you do not trust your woman. If at all you trust her, then you should have no reason of wanting to go through her messages.
8. Are you sure you want to be with me? – When a man asks this question, he is usually just trying to gauge whether he is on the same page with his woman. What the woman hears however is a man who is not comfortable in his own skin. This man is very unattractive to a woman.