Ladies, tricks to become more than just a booty call this weekend
So, a couple of months ago, you got involved in a fling. The casual, no strings attached arrangement was working… until it wasn’t.
Maybe you realized that he really is a good person; maybe you fell in love with him. Truth is, you want something more from him than occasional hook ups.
Here is a look into things you could try to make him more than a friend with benefit;
1. Give him space – That saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder is true when it comes to booty calls. The scarcer you become, the fonder he will grow of you. Stop being there every time he calls. You might lose him but if he feels anything for you, he will go after you.
2. Stop being a pushover – By this, I mean that you show him that you have a life. Make him aware that you have a strong circle of friends and that you do go out and have fun even when he isn’t around. He should know that you don’t sit around all day just waiting for his call.
3. Look good – If your friends with benefits is going to see you as more than a booty call, then you will need to look like someone he is proud to be seen with out in public. When he makes a call, show up looking your best.
4. Reveal your personality – In most friends with benefits arrangements, you will hide who you really are. If you are keen on turning those casual encounters into something serious, maybe it is time you showed him who you really are. Your personality maybe what gets him to change his mind about your arrangement.
5. Start calling the shots – More often than not, it is the men who call the shots when it comes to no strings attached arrangements. Take charge of the situation and go after what you want. If it is his heart, go for it.
6. Meet outside the bedroom – Instead of the usual hook up, try asking your booty call out on a date. Seeing each other in a different environment might get him to see you in a different light.
7. Positivity – If you are one of those women who are always whining about one thing or the other, then Prince Charming will not want to be around you all the time. Make sure that when he does see you, there are some good stories, not just the bad ones.
8. Let him know – The easiest was to run your booty call into a boyfriend is to simply let him know that you want more. Let him know where your heart stands and if he feels the same, he sure will let you know. You may not get the answer you are looking for but if you don’t ask then you will never know.
